The Truth Behind The Pussy Oracle, Part III

You Are The Ritual

By the time The Pussy Oracle wanted to be born again, I was done performing on all levels. Done trying to make healing look beautiful. Done with pretending that being “in your power” meant never crying on the bathroom floor. And done with the glossy version of leadership that forgets that she’s a mom, wants to honor her health and in general is more than “the feminine leader”. 

When I started creating the deck, I could finally hold both: the power and the softness. The open heart and the open pussy. And that’s where true leadership lives. What this deck is not (sorry, not sorry) Let’s get this straight: The Pussy Oracle isn’t here to help you “find your voice”. You already have one. You’ve just spent years (and lifetimes) learning to mistrust it. This deck isn’t a light-and-love escape hatch. Nor is she a “manifest your dream life by Friday” tool.

She is your mirror. A remembering. And an invitation for your reclamation.

She doesn’t speak in vague affirmations, she whispers truth. And with all truths that come from love: some will feel like honey and others will burn you first like fire. But most of all she will hand you the mirror and whisper: “love, it’s time to stop lying to yourself and be magical, just by being you. What she really does Every card is a portal. A reminder that your body is not just a vessel, but a living altar. A deep knowing that when your heart and your pussy are connected, your magic becomes unbreakable and unstoppable. And not just in your journal but by creating YOUR dream life, love and business. You don’t crumble when someone projects onto you. You don’t dim your power to make others comfortable. And you don’t beg the universe for your next step.

You will trust life and with that yourself on a whole new level. That’s the energy this deck holds. Not performative, glamour spirituality, but embodied and lived in your personal truth. The moment I realized what I had created I remember sitting on the floor, cards spread out all around me. Roel, my husband had taken Finn and Luca out to play and I created a moment for myself to take it all in. And it hit me: she wasn’t just a deck. I never wanted her to be. I set the intention that every woman buying her, would feel how special she was because they could actually FEEL her. She was not just a deck. She has her own entity. She holds the stories and wisdom of everything I have ever lived. Every lesson. Every heartbreak. Every initiation. I still remember that moment. I laughed and I cried, while whispering to the cards: “We did it. You found your voice”. She and I. Leadership that feels like love I teach women that leadership isn’t about being serious all the time. It’s not about perfection. It’s always about honesty. It’s about being the woman who can say: “Yes, I am powerful and I will always deepen my own medicine first.”

So, no matter where you are in your own becoming, whether you’re in the rebirth, the release or the blooming phase, remember: the ritual is not outside of you.You are the ritual. Always have been and always will be.

Save this for the days you forget who you are. And if you want to hold a piece of this remembrance in your hands, meet The Pussy Oracle Deck → cindystal.com/thepussyoracle