There’s something I can see so clearly now that I’m writing my book Love, Received. I always wanted love and not just love. I wanted “the one”. And I wanted the business too. I’m ambitious, driven and I have always felt my calling. I knew I was here to create something, to build something, to work with women, to make money through my gifts and to keep following the work wherever she wanted to take me. None of that was fake. None of it was compensation disguised as ambition. B

Earlier this week I received a message that made me smile: “Today it’s a year ago that I started to taper off the anxiety medication and it has been months since I’ve had the thought to take my medication.” A client sent me this message this morning. A client who, a year ago, intuitively knew she wanted to get off her anxiety medication. This wasn't proving energy. She knew, she was guided and she knew she couldn't guide women as clearly anymore as she had always desired whil

This oracle deck, just like The Pussy Oracle deck, has taken her time to come to form. And maybe even more, allowed me to release all within me that was no longer needed when she would become a physical card deck instead of just an energy form. Because every creation from the heart starts within your heart first. Without a fixed form. That form will reveal itself when you are willing to show up for the creation first. You have to accept her first. I had to become one with h

This morning I looked out of my kitchen window while making my coffee. The little girl that lives next to us was playing on her bike and singing songs that probably she was the only one who could make sense of it. She was having fun. On the street, alone with her bike. Sometimes people don’t understand that I miss Anna Sophia more at moments like these than when it’s her birthday or during Christmas for example. Grief taught me that it’s ok to miss someone. Grief is love with

Why your business (or your love life) feels blocked even though you're not a bad manifestor With almost every client I encounter these 2 things when we look at why she isn’t manifesting what she says she desires: A: Is it your Soul’s success that you’re after…or is it what you think you should create or - and this is an important one - what your deep, core wound wants to create? B: When what’s in your business feels like too much to hold (energetically), you will close you

If there is one piece of business advice I stopped believing years ago, it's this: "You just need more visibility." Post more. Sell harder. Go viral. Be everywhere. Be consistent and show up every day. Become impossible to ignore. As if success is simply a numbers game. I understand why so many women believe it. I believed parts of it too and when I’m insecure, I can still spiral a moment on some of these. We live in an online world where follower counts are treated like proo

everyone wants the quantum leap. but devotion is what gets you there. a guide to honoring your soul's truth through sacrifice, surrender, and sacred commitment.

What if choosing yourself was never meant to cost you everything? My personal story of debt, healing, and what it actually means to receive abundance in money, love, and life.

"A 5 million dollar business means nothing if you don't feel abundant behind the scenes. Build something so real, so full… that when you're gone, your loved ones can't stop talking about how good your actual life was." Why I write 25 reasons before every launch This morning I wrote in my journal 25 reasons why everyone should join 30k in 30 days the f* abundant edition. I always love this practice and I’ve given it to clients so many times. Not to find reasons to convince,

I wanted to create a blog post dedicated to the Great Mother oracle card in the Your Healing Journey oracle deck. Her energy feels so present in my sessions, weaved through my own life and in the collective as a whole. The Great Mother, surrender into her arms. Deep surrender to allow life to unfold for you. Exactly how your Soul envisions it. But there is a deeper meaning that only becomes more and more important as we step into 2027 and towards 2030. The new children th

The hidden pattern that keeps powerful women settling in business, love, and life I believe there is a wave moving through the world that is powerful and confronting. These past months the women in my business all heal a deep layer of their mother wound. The wound that is most avoided, bypassed but also the one that expands you the most, if you allow yourself to heal. This newsletter has been on my list for days, if not weeks…and in the light of Spring…it’s time. It’s a long

Before you read further, I want to say this clearly: this is not a judgment blog. We all have a version of ourselves who did what she had to do with what she had at the time. Who numbed herself with drugs, prescription medication, sex, alcohol, food, overworking, over-scrolling, because the pain was real, the capacity wasn't there yet, and survival looked like whatever got you through the night. That version of you deserves compassion. Full stop. And… There comes a moment and

Success That Feels Like You: Redefining What It Truly Means to Win How do you FEEL when you tune into your success? What does success really look like to you? I’ve been in the international coaching industry for 11 yrs and I’ve seen way more than my share of multi 6 fig or 7fig ceo's who created a monster that left them burnout and they secretly want to run away from. What people expect from you OR what you believe they expect from you...is not always what leaves you most fu

Spiritual Protection isn't fear. Spiritual Bypassing and Energy Protection: Why Love and Light Leaves You Exposed There's a version of spirituality that feels safe. Sage away around your home. Affirmations in the morning. Golden light visualizations before bed. A commitment to staying positive, staying open, staying in love and light. I understand the appeal and I lived in that version for a long time. But here's what nobody in that world told me: staying constantly open, wit

What nobody talks about when it comes to IVF and "created children" I've sat with this for a long time. Something has always moved in me around IVF and other forms of conceived children. Throughout my years in my business, I've worked with several clients navigating fertility journeys. Women who wanted desperately to become mothers, and who turned or think about turning to science to make it possible. I hold deep compassion for that longing. I really do. And still I want to a

In this deeply personal story, I shares the journey that led me to meeting my husband and experiencing what I call “the love story of a lifetime.” Through heartbreak, intuition, and moments of uncomfortable clarity, I explains how staying loyal to my inner knowing and refusing to settle changed everything. This reflection explores self-trust, devotion, and the connection between how we receive love in relationships and how we receive in business and life.

One day they will pretend they agreed with you all along…till that moment, read this 👇 I have always known. Just like you. And I don’t mean intellectually. I don’t mean because I studied something. I mean like the kind of knowing that lands in the body and sometimes makes you jump and wave and sometimes makes you feel f* cringe, because you can feel other people’s discomfort with it. When I walk into a room, I instantly know. Whether this is the schoolyard, a family birthda

I received a DM from a woman who asked me about my way of helping women all over the world, while she knows that I started my business in Dutch. This blog tells the truth about that journey. She said: “You started your business in Dutch. How did you reach international success?” I said: “I felt I was meant to grow beyond The Netherlands. Just like, years ago, I felt I had to grow beyond Limburg when I first started.” It just didn’t happen overnight. ;) Yes, occasionally an

A reflection on how doing less can create more ease, clarity, and flow. A feminine journey into softness,

You Are The Ritual: The Pussy Oracle and Embodied Feminine Leadership By the time The Pussy Oracle wanted to be born again, I was done performing on all levels. Done trying to make healing look beautiful. Done with pretending that being “in your power” meant never crying on the bathroom floor. And done with the glossy version of leadership that forgets that she’s a mom, wants to honor her health and in general is more than “the feminine leader”. When I started creating the de